Question: I'm a single mom trying to raise 5 out of control children. How do I get them to listen to me and obey me?

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Answer #1:

Next time one of them hits you call the police. They can go to jail and be with their father.
I would also suggest that you find another troll and use IM's to trade stories with.

Answer #2:

You need support and help,, You cannot blame others for their behaviour, they have disrespected you for so long and your husband encouraged their behaviour, they just think this is the normal way to act.. Discipline is the only way, but if you cannot cope alone then ask social services for help, before it is to late and they end up as criminals..

Answer #3:

Do you take Your Children to see there DaD if so let him talk to them about how thay should treat You if not you have to do what ever it takes do you have any family members to take your oldest son for about aa month . and when your oldest is gone for awile streghten up the younger ones . Good Luck !

Answer #4:

I really hate trolls!

Answer #5:

Awww..u sound like suchh a greeatt mum!!
i actually feel like saying to ur children that they're garbage!(sorry if i hurt u)
Have u ever though that ur children wants to do stuff & u don't understand?
Maybe ur oldest son is kinda upset too? children gets upset VERY easily. Then what do they do? yupp something that they feel sorry about when they think bak.
U have to take A LOT of time to understand them...maybe ur hasband actually tlks to them and thinks about what they actually want?
i'm kinda like ur son,(older 1 yr and doesn't actually sleep wth boys)i curse my mum, but that's becoz i feel like i'm not loved, i also feel like i'm stressed i sometimes think bak and say how orrible that was.i bet ur son is the same.
Talk to ur son,ask him why he's doing that and ask him what u can do to make him happy.
(if he says somethign like "go and die") then let him be what he wants to be becoz he's a lil thing with no feelings for his mother!
ur suffering a lot,but it will be over soon?
let ur children know that ur suffering, don't hide when ur crying.....
let them know u love them more than u can say.
Btws ur son is kinda acting like more than a twelve yr old......yell at him...(if he des throw used condoms again..yell at him/slap him....)(might sound hurtful..but if u want him to start behaving u gotta try)
I hope this works...and i'm only a 13 yr old...i know i shouldn't give comment to u but hope it works...
u can e-mail/msn me?
xp_emily_xo@live.co.uk

Answer #6:

don't let your anger with your husband affect your kids, its not there fault. who runs the house? you or your kids?. who pays the bills, who feeds them, who puts clothes on their back?...i think its mom.they need a wake up call,your the boss not them, its time to put there foot down hard,maybe they would like to live with there father in jail maybe they think its better, there to young to even think of understanding that.maybe for your 12 yr old when help slaps you or does what he does,tell him that he can be charged for this kindda act, ever scare him into being arrested?. spend the nite in jail with the big boys, see how cocky he gets than, tell him when the police get involled that daddy or mommy can't help you than, that its to late now the the law is in control. Never have a heard of kids doin that to there mother or father.take them to where the ppl who live on the street and ask them if they would rather stay here or in there own bed. (don't take them on a sunny day,.... nice wet cold rainy day would be better).sometimes it take guts for a parent to give the kids the hard lesson in life, maybe u should try it..............best of luck.





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